• THEY TELL YOU - I know it is basic, but it is true. And it is especially true AS you are dating. If they like you and are continuing to like you they WILL TELL YOU. If they are interested, most of the time they will not only show it, they will say it.
• They are clearly TRYING to connect with you - You want to invest in someone who is also investing in you. Often we tend to invest in people based on HOW much we like them, versus really analyzing how much they are investing in US.

• You need to WATCH and see. Are they REALLY trying? If this is done ONLINE or on DM’s and your message is thoughtful and has a lot of words and they respond in 1-2 sentences, the investment is NOT equal. If you’re really watching, you WILL be able to see if they are interested or not. It doesnt always have to be tit-for-tat, but fellas.. If she is responding with “yes, good, oh that’s crazy, yea sure.. Or not responding… they are not interested. Another key is this…If the conversation dies down, do they RE-initiate? When the conversation stops or texting dies down, do they intentionally come back and chat with you? Who is initiating and how frequently? You can show them you like them, but you do not want to chase them. There is a difference between pursue and chase. If it’s clear that they are not investing back, then it’s one of 2 options. Maybe they’re either incapable of being curious, OR, they are just not interested. And even if they are not interested it does NOT mean you are any less interesting. :)
• PROXIMITY - They are trying to get close to you and try to be around you. This is for real life and virtually. This happens at church, serving in the childrens minsitry, church potluck, small group, hangouts, in the  DM’s, comments. If they are consistently putting themselves in your proximity. 
• They finds time to see you even when it is not convenient.
• Their communication is consistent. 

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