self-paced Online program with monthly coaching calls

Basics of Dating

The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. 

Get healed and whole, and gain the tools to date again with wisdom.

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We created this program to help you:

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Heal from heartbreak and move forward with confidence.

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Break the cycle of attracting the wrong type of person.

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Start attracting godly, healthy relationships.

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Overcome relationship anxiety and date with peace and clarity.

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Navigate dating in a way that’s emotionally and spiritually healthy.

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Become whole before stepping into a relationship.

Who is Basics of Dating for?

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If you’ve never dated before and don’t know where to start.

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If you’re not quite ready to date, but want to be.

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If you feel stuck in the same cycle of meeting the wrong people.

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If you keep attracting the wrong type and don’t know how to break the pattern.

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If you’re recovering from heartbreak and want to heal before moving forward.

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If you have major relationship anxiety and need a healthy, peace-filled approach to dating.

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If you want to date with wisdom rather than chaos and confusion.

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If you want healing and wholeness before stepping into relationship.

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So… how does it work?

The Basics of Dating is a self-paced, do-it-yourself program designed to fit your schedule!

Lifetime Access

Once you enroll, the content is yours forever. Go at your own pace and revisit lessons anytime.

6 Modules, 23 Lessons

Each module includes 3-5 pre-recorded lessons packed with biblical wisdom, practical strategies, and mindset shifts to transform your dating life.

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6-Week Guided Format (or Your Own Pace!)

Follow our recommended plan to complete the course in 6 weeks, or take your time—you won’t lose access!

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Monthly Live Q&A

While this is a self-study course, you’ll still get support! Join our once-a-month Q&A session with one of our in-house dating coaches for extra guidance.

Here’s what we will cover in Basics of Dating

6 Modules, 23 Lessons– A transformational Journey

01: Evaluating Your Past

Healing & Preparing for Goldy Love

Before stepping into a healthy, God-honoring relationship, we have to look back and understand what’s been shaping our hearts. In this foundational module, we’ll dive into your past experiences, patterns, and wounds—not to dwell on them, but to invite God’s healing and renewal into your dating journey.

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  • Healing from Past Hurt & Trauma – We’ll look at how your past experiences have shaped you and allow God’s truth to bring healing, breaking free from patterns that no longer serve you.
  • Recognizing Your Triggers – Learn to recognize emotional triggers in dating and how to lean on God’s strength rather than reacting out of fear or self-protection.
  • Understanding Attachment Through a Biblical Lens – Attachment theory offers insight into how we connect with others, but God’s design for love and security goes even deeper.
  • Discovering Your Attachment Style – We’ll explore the four attachment styles (anxious, secure, avoidant, and ambivalent) and how to move toward secure, Christ-centered relationships.

God desires wholeness for your heart—not just for a future relationship but for your identity, confidence, and faith right now. By the end of this module, you’ll have a stronger foundation, renewed trust in God’s plan, and tools to navigate dating with wisdom and security.

02: Evaluating YOU

Becoming the Person You’re looking for

Before we talk about finding the right person, we have to ask: Are you becoming the kind of person the right person is looking for? A thriving, Christ-centered relationship starts with a thriving, Christ-centered you. This module is about aligning your life with God’s purpose, growing in confidence, and preparing yourself for a relationship in a way that honors Him.

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  • Lukewarm or On Fire? – Are you fully pursuing Christ, or just coasting? We’ll challenge any areas of complacency.
  • Discovering Your Godly Purpose – A strong relationship isn’t just about romance—it’s about walking in your calling. Your calling doesn’t start when you meet someone- it starts now.
  • The Power of Community – Healthy relationships don’t happen in isolation. We’ll look at who you’re surrounding yourself with and go through the 4 Ingredients Needed to form true, healthy, Godly friendships
  • Finances & Stewardship – Money is one of the top marriage stressors- so why not start getting into it now? We’re going to do a money audit and evaluate your mindset, habits, and trust in God when it comes to finances.

By the end of this module, you’ll feel more confident, more aligned with God’s plan, and more prepared to step into dating with purpose. Because the best relationships aren’t just about finding someone—they’re about two whole, purpose-driven people walking in God’s will together.

03: Evaluating Your Why

Dating with Clarity & Purpose

So many people enter dating with unrealistic expectations, unnecessary pressure, or no clear direction. This module will challenge cultural and personal misconceptions while helping you define a healthy, biblical approach to dating.

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  • The Truth About “The One” – The idea of a soulmate is a Hollywood myth, not a biblical reality. Instead of searching for “the one,” learn how to date with wisdom and choose well.
  • The Stages of Dating – Christian dating feels confusing because everyone follows a different “rulebook.” Together we’ll ditch high stakes dating and replace it with a low-stakes, friendship-focused process leading to a committed relationship.
  • Creating Your Dating Mission Statement – Why do you want to be married? Without a mission, dating can feel frustrating and aimless. You’ll craft a personalized mission statement to help you stay intentional, confident, and aligned with God’s plan.

By the end of this module, you’ll ditch the pressure, date with freedom, and move forward with a biblical, purpose-driven approach to relationships.

04: Evaluating Your Who

Attraction & Finding the Right Person

It’s time to get clear on who you should be dating. In this module, we’ll challenge misconceptions about attraction, deal breakers, and unrealistic expectations so you can date with wisdom and confidence.

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  • Red Flags vs. Deal Breakers – Not every red flag is a deal breaker. Learn how to spot warning signs, ask the right questions, and discern if an issue can change or if it’s a hard no.
  • Debunking “Type” – Is your “type” based on godly compatibility or past wounds? We’ll help you rethink attraction and stop overlooking great potential partners.
  • The 5 Buckets of Attraction – Attraction isn’t just physical. You’ll learn how all the buckets of attraction play a role in lasting relationships.
  • The Right Way to Make “The List” – Too many singles have no list or an impossible checklist. We’ll help you narrow it down to 5 must-haves rooted in godly character.

By the end of this module, you’ll have clarity on who to date, what really matters, and how to choose wisely with faith and confidence.

05: Evaluating Your Where

Expanding Your Opportunities

If you’ve been thinking, “There’s just no one out there!”—this module is for you. The truth? Your mindset and approach may be limiting your opportunities. It’s time to reset your perspective, rethink online dating, and intentionally expand where you meet godly people.

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  • Mindset Reset – If you believe there are “no good ones left,” you’re living in scarcity mode—which kills your success in dating. We’ll help you shift into an abundance mindset, trust God’s provision, and take control of what you can change.
  • Online Dating (Done Right!) – Online dating isn’t desperate or unbiblical—it’s just another tool. Learn how to reset your expectations, approach it with confidence, and avoid the biggest mindset traps that make it frustrating.
  • Where to Meet Godly Singles – There are more opportunities than you think! We’ll walk through 8 key ways to meet great Christian men and women—without forcing it or feeling awkward.

By the end of this module, you’ll ditch discouragement, embrace new possibilities, and step into dating with faith, confidence, and intentionality.

06: Evaluating Your How

Navigating Dating with Wisdom

Now that you know who and where to date, it’s time to talk about how to date well. This module gives you practical, biblical wisdom on navigating dating with confidence, clarity, and integrity.

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  • Rules of Dating – Dating isn’t in the Bible, but wisdom is. We’ll walk through key dating principles like pacing your relationships, setting clear expectations, and keeping the process low-pressure.
  • Dating in Community – Healthy dating doesn’t happen in isolation. Learn how to involve wise counsel, avoid “friendationships,” and navigate dating within your Christian circles with maturity.
  • Rejection & Ghosting – Rejection isn’t a reflection of your worth. We’ll reframe rejection as God’s protection, help you move forward without spiraling, and tackle the realities of ghosting.
  • Boundaries That Honor God – Physical, emotional, and spiritual boundaries protect your heart and future relationship. We’ll help you set clear, healthy boundaries that align with your values.

By the end of this module, you’ll date with wisdom, confidence, and a clear plan—honoring God, yourself, and others along the way.

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Meet your mentors!

Hey there! We’re Kait and JJ —your dating mentors who have been through the highs, lows, and downright bizarre moments of Christian dating.

Kait is a dating expert, national best-selling author, and founder of Heart of Dating—a top-rated podcast turned global movement helping Christian singles date with confidence.

JJ, on the other hand, was the guy who overanalyzed, avoided hard conversations, and even ghosted to escape confrontation.

Between us, we’ve made just about every dating mistake in the book—until we decided to break the cycle and change our approach.

Through therapy, community, personal mentors, and a fresh perspective, we stopped overcommitting, let go of unrealistic expectations, and learned to date with joy and integrity. This shift ultimately led us to finding each other and getting married!

Now, we’re here to help you transform your dating life too. Whether you’ve been ghosted, had your heart broken, or just feel stuck—we’ve been there. You don’t have to figure this out alone.

Let’s do this together.

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If you’re burnt out or heartbroken, it’s Time for a Refresh!

Dating doesn’t have to feel exhausting, confusing, or discouraging. Whether you’re feeling stuck, frustrated, or just ready for a fresh start, this program will give you the tools, mindset shifts, and biblical wisdom to approach dating with confidence, clarity, and joy.

Here’s What You Will Get In This Program:

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6 Power-Packed Modules – Each module is designed to help you evaluate your past, redefine your approach, and date with purpose.

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23 Transformational Lessons – Dive deep into faith-centered, practical teachings that will change the way you date forever.

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BONUS: Monthly Live Q&A Call – You’re not in this alone! Get extra guidance with a live Q&A session every month with one of our in-house dating coaches.

This isn’t just another dating course—it’s a game-changer that will help you break unhealthy patterns, trust God’s timing, and step back into dating with healing and confidence.

Are you ready? Let’s do this!

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Payment Details & Payment Options

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Frequently asked questions

Who is this program for?
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This program is for Christian singles who are tired of feeling stuck, discouraged, or confused about dating. Whether you’re navigating heartbreak, unsure where to meet godly people, or just want to date with more confidence and clarity, this course is designed to help you break unhealthy patterns, reset your mindset, and approach dating in a whole new way.

How long does the program take?
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This course is designed to be completed in 6 weeks—with one module per week. But you can go at your own pace! You’ll have lifetime access to all the content, so you can revisit it whenever you need a refresh.

Is this program for men and women?
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Yes! This program is designed for both men and women who want a biblical, practical, and realistic approach to dating. The lessons apply no matter where you are in your dating journey.

Is this a live program?
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Nope! This is a self-paced, pre-recorded course, which means you can watch the lessons anytime, anywhere. However, you will have access to a BONUS monthly live Q&A where you can get extra support from one of our in-house dating coaches!

Is there a community aspect?
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While this program does not include a private community, you will get access to a once-a-month live Q&A call, where you can ask questions, get guidance, and feel supported in your journey.

Do you offer any scholarships or discounts?
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We are excited that you feel this content would help you!

At this time, we do not offer scholarships or discounts for this program. However, we’ve intentionally priced it to be affordable and accessible while providing incredible value that can truly transform your dating life. Since you’ll have lifetime access, it’s an investment that will continue to support you in every season of your dating journey!

I’m worried I don’t have enough time for this. What kind of time commitment are we talking about?
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Great news—this program is designed to fit into your life, not take it over. Each module includes 3-5 short, pre-recorded lessons, so you can watch at your own pace, on your own schedule. If you follow our recommended 6-week plan, you’ll only need 1-2 hours per week. But since you’ll have lifetime access, you can take as much time as you need! Whether you go all-in or take it slow, every step forward will help transform your dating life.

What if I’ve already been dating for a while? Will this still help me?
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Absolutely! Whether you’re just starting to date or you’ve been in the game for a while, this program will help you evaluate your patterns, refine your approach, and date with more wisdom and confidence. If you’ve ever felt frustrated or stuck in dating, this program is for you.

What if I’ve never dated before?
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Perfect! This program will help you lay a strong foundation from the very beginning, so you can date with intention and avoid unnecessary heartache.

How is this different from your other programs?
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This is our most accessible, go-at-your-own-pace program designed to help you get unstuck, gain confidence, and take action in your dating life. It’s not a mentorship or coaching program, but it’s a powerful resource to help you navigate dating with biblical wisdom and practical strategies.

What is your refund policy?
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Due to the instant access nature of this program, all sales are final. However, we’re confident that if you commit to the lessons and apply what you learn, you’ll see real transformation in your dating life!

This keeps it simple, engaging, and answers key concerns while keeping an inviting tone. Let me know if you’d like to tweak anything!

It’s Time to Step FULLY into Your REFRESHED Dating Life.

If finding a faith-filled partner is the desire of your heart we’d love to help you fall in love with yourself first, discover wholeness and healing, understand the practical side of dating and relationships, and give you all the TOOLS to get REAL dating results!

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