This is an EXCITING day. We were able to POLL yall on instagram to find out what YOUR burning questions are regarding dating… we wanted to give you the opportunity to ask us anything, and now Kait is here to discuss it ALL...heyoooo!!

Alrighty friends, truth be told, this is our first SOLO episode so we have to first start out by asking… have GRACE WITH KAIT! We want to put a disclaimer on this episode that Kait does not know the answers to everything. Dating is nuanced and murky and there are a variety of opinions out there. So today Kait does her VERY best to speak from her heart and share with you where she stands on these questions. Her answers won’t be perfect, but they will be from the heart. And they will also be grounded in as much resources and research as possible… but that STILL does not make them the end all be all.

Here are the questions Kait answers in today's episode:

Jade:What is the difference between dating and calling each other boyfriend/girlfriend?

Aaron: Is dating exclusively the same things as being bf/gf?Lauren: How do you MAKE IT OFFICIAL?

How do I DTR when we are technically still just friends?

How do you tell a friend you have feelings for him beyond friendship without it ruining things?

How/Where can I meet a quality man?

How can I meet quality men when your church is lacking in single guys.”

Heather: What is a great practical way for a girl to to initiate romantic interest in a guy?Megan: Is it WRONG for the girl to make interest knowing to a guy or is that too forward?Lucy: What are some tips you’d give someone before going on a first date?

Jordan: Is dating supposed to be fun? Christian dating has felt like a constructing, boring checklist process.”

FUN DATE IDEAS!

Dan: How do you handle an on/off relationships where you both love each other but aren't ready for a serious relationship?Sarah: How do you keep HOPE alive when there’s been a lot of rejection and discouragement?Savannah: When do I bring up boundaries and my decision to stay celibate until marriage?Kate: How do we talk about boundaries? Who brings it up?

What is my final nugget of dating advice?