You dream of loving someone else deeply and being loved for who you are, BUT your head is spinning with questions and emotions that are getting replayed over and over in your head. Sound familiar? Maybe you have been feeling:
Rejected, hopeless and like you’re running in circles with your dating life.
Like you have little to zero dating prospects.
A lack of confidence in your dating life.
That you are actively attracting and dating the wrong kind of people.
And perhaps the biggest thought of all:
How do I actually land a dream date that I’m actually EXCITED about?
All of this frustration is enough to make you question your dating life altogether.
BUT… you know there is someone out there for you and you know giving up won’t help you find what you really desire.
You’re ready to FINALLY land that dream date that could lead to a forever.
Become the person God DESIRES you to be to be so you can ATTRACT the person that will be RIGHT for you.
Feel RELAXED and CONFIDENT in dating and actually enjoy the process without seeing it as a waste of time.
Know exactly WHERE and HOW to find QUALITY people to date
Feel utterly confident in your ability to FLIRT and COMMUNICATE your wants and desires in dating.
Find renewed JOY and EXCITEMENT in your dating life, while being thrilled with its success.
Break the cycle of ANXIETY and OVER-ANALYZING and transform it into a newfound excitement about putting yourself out there.
Learn true RESILIENCE in the face of rejection so it no longer holds you back.
Have a CLEAR understanding of what the opposite sex wants and be able to attract the person you’re looking for.
Implement the EXACT dating process that Kait used to go from dating to finding her forever love.
of student are 30+
students per class
sessions most students tend to miss.
You get lifetime access to all recordings
We DO have payment plan options
gets the best price so text FIRSTDIBS to +1 (214) 225-7772
We meet Tuesday nights and Saturday morning with BONUS Thursday night Office Hours
If you are Single as a Pringle, this is perfect for you
You can take SOD while dating/ in a relationship
of students who take SOD have never taken an intensive program before
are 30+
per class
most students tend to miss.
You have lifetime access / all replays will be available
We DO have payment plan options- see below.
so text FIRSTDIBS to +1 (214) 225-7772
Tuesday nights and Saturday morning with BONUS Thursday night Office Hours
while dating/ in a relationship or while in closed singeleness
this is PERFECT for you
have never taken an intensive program before
October 8th
Session 1: 7pm-9pm CT
Intro to Core Wound, Inner Child/Teen and Reconnecting with Parts of Self
October 10
Office Hours: 7pm-8pm CT
October 12
N/A
October 15th
Session 2: 7pm-9pm CT
Attachment Style / Wounds
October 17th
Office Hours: 7pm-8pm CT
October 19th
N/A
October 22nd
Session 3: 7pm-9pm CT
Core Wound, Mind-Body Connection & Managing Emotions
October 24th
Office Hours: 7pm-8pm CT
October 26th
N/A
October 29th
Session 4: 7pm-9pm CT
GODFIDENCE & Healthy Anatomy of a Relationship
October 31st
Office Hours : 7pm-8pm CT
November 2nd
N/A
November 5th
Session 5: 7pm-9pm CT
Type, Attraction, & Clarity in Your Values
November 7th
Office Hours : 7pm-8pm CT
November 9th
N/A
November 12th
Session 6: 7pm-9pm CT
Dating Mindset RESET
November 14th
Office Hours : 7pm-8pm CT
November 16th
N/A
November 19th
Session 7: 7pm-9pm CT
Feminine and Masculine
November 21st
Office Hours : 7pm-8pm CT
November 23rd
Session 8: 11am-1pm CT
Flirting 101
November 26th
Session 9: 7pm-9pm CT
Online Dating + Dating Challenge
November 28th
Off for Thanksgiving!
November 30th
Session 10: 11am-1pm CT
Pacing in Relationships
December 3rd
Session 11: 7pm-9pm CT
First Dates
December 5th
Office Hours: 7pm-8pm CT
December 7th
Session 12: 11am-1pm CT
Facing Rejection
July 23rd
Break Week
July 25th
Break Week
July 27th
Break Week
December 10th
Session 13: 7pm-9pm CT
After the First Date, Communication & Managing Expectations
December 12th
Office Hours: 7pm-8pm CT
Decmeber 14th
Session 14: 11am-1pm CT
Long Distance & Dating Hot Seat
December 17th
Session 15: 7pm-9pm CT
DTR, Boundaries, and Hard Conversations
December 19th
Office Hours: 7pm-8pm CT
December 21st
Session 16: 11am-1pm CT
Graduation
Kait’s a Dating Expert, National best-selling Author, Overacheiver, and Ex-Love-Addict.
She founded the Heart of Dating. A top 100 rated Christian Podcast turned empire of Christian dating. Today Heart of Dating reaches over 200 countries, helps men and women ages 18+ of all sorts of varying backgrounds, stories, and dating experiences, and brings together Christians singles in a tight knit, diverse, and compelling community.
Here’s the thing. We’ve seen it all when it comes to dating: nightmarish breakups, ghosting for days, people that turn out to be complete con-artists (including someone who tried to catfish us on dating apps). We’ve even dated people that seem ‘holier than thou’ but try to get into our pants on a first date. All.of.it.
Oh, and we should mention… we haven’t always been the Master daters ourselves. I’m sure plenty of people in our past would have some stories to tell about us, too. UNTIL we woke up to reality, broke the cycle, and transformed the way we were approaching dating. We invested in new friendships, sought out therapy (Lord knows I needed it), and have read just about every dating book on the planet.
I (Kait) used to jump RIGHT into the boat when I saw a guy who had the potential of being a great man for me. I’d immediately commit and often get deeply betrayed or hurt in the process. So I decided to throw my idea of “type” out the window and allow God to surprise me by doing a 3 month dating challenge in early 2021. I lived by the phrase “date the unexpected and God just may do the unexpected”.
I held dating loosely, approached it with more confidence and ease, and didn’t feel weighed down by pressure and expectations.
In this process I realized something: dating can get better. I went from loathing my dating life, to walking in my worth, feeling confident to make a move, letting go of unrealistic expectations, and finally dating with joy and integrity.
I (JJ) had a bit of a different background with some similar themes! Even though I rarely took out girls, I definitely fell hard with gifts and flowers and wooing, so the sting of rejection was extra painful for me. On the flip side, because I hated having hard conversations and never led the relationship out of transparency and love, I learned the habit of over-analyzing, fearfully avoiding dating and even ghosting when not wanting to have a hard conversation!
Between our different personalities and our unique dating histories, we’ve made just about every dating mistake in the book. Until we began to take responsibility, seek help, and learned to master our dating lives.
We’d love to walk right alongside you as you learn to do the same.
We want to equip you to MASTER your dating life. Through our unique journeys, we feel deeply called to walk alongside other singles to help you completely reconstruct your dating mindset, tool kit and experience from start to finish.
In this program you will leave with emboldened confidence, practical dating tools and a true transformation in the way you date. We have developed a 3-pronged pivot approach to dating that leads to REAL results.
Phase 1: Establish Clarity and Confidence in Dating
In the first part of the program, you will establish newfound clarity and confidence in yourself in your dating life.
Ever feel like part of your dating success is tied to how much YOU feel worthy of the person for you? Do you ever attach in love anxiously, avoidantly or even sporadically?
These huge pain points are incredibly common, but so hard to properly heal. We’re going to help you experience true inner healing and build new freedom in WHO you are. We firmly believe you must know your needs, wounds, and triggers in order to know what you actually NEED for you.
You will leave this part of the program with a renewed abundance of hope for dating and be READY to take the plunge in confidence.
Phase 2: Elevate Your Dating Momentum
In the second part of our program, you will maximize your dating tool kit and how to GET OUT THERE and meet quality Christians….
Your comfort zone will definitely be pushed! But you will be amazed at how often and how many dates you get following our model (no more struggling with where to meet quality singles any more!).
We will also help you to take the plunge into Online and Social media dating with all of our strategic secrets to achieving actual success in these overwhelming worlds. You will deep dive and understand the feminine and masculine in dating, giving you the best flirting and communication tactics so you feel equipped to not only secure a date but also show up to a first date with ease and confidence.
You’re going to leave this section of the program having mastered the art of first dates, feeling far less weary about rejection, and WAY more satisfied with how many quality people you are meeting.
Phase 3: Get Real Dating Results
In the final phase, we’re not going to let you walk out of these 8 weeks without getting REAL DATING RESULTS.
What if you could ENJOY dating and actually have SUCCESS while doing it? We’re going to share our insider secrets to our most creative and meaningful date ideas that will make you feel connected and rediscover the FUN in dating.
You’ll also gain clarity on how to communicate and connect with your date throughout the process of dating. We will share our top LDR tips, in-person strategies and our system for managing expectations. Can you resonate with that feeling of liking someone and NOT knowing how to share your feelings without putting mounds of pressure on yourself or the other person? Together, we will solve it!
You will leave yourself equipped and able to discern what dating situations you should stay in and which you should leave, all the while leaving someone better than you found them.
We want to equip you to MASTER your dating life. Through our unique journeys, we feel deeply called to walk alongside other singles to help you completely reconstruct your dating mindset, tool kit and experience from start to finish.
In this program you will leave with emboldened confidence, practical dating tools and a true transformation in the way you date. We have developed a 3-pronged pivot approach to dating that leads to REAL results.
Phase 1: Establish Clarity and Confidence in Dating
In the first part of the program, you will establish newfound clarity and confidence in yourself in your dating life.
Ever feel like part of your dating success is tied to how much YOU feel worthy of the person for you? Do you ever attach in love anxiously, avoidantly or even sporadically?
These huge pain points are incredibly common, but so hard to properly heal. We’re going to help you experience true inner healing and build new freedom in WHO you are. We firmly believe you must know your needs, wounds, and triggers in order to know what you actually NEED for you.
You will leave this part of the program with a renewed abundance of hope for dating and be READY to take the plunge in confidence.
Phase 2: Elevate Your Dating Momentum
In the second part of our program, you will maximize your dating tool kit and how to GET OUT THERE and meet quality Christians….
Your comfort zone will definitely be pushed! But you will be amazed at how often and how many dates you get following our model (no more struggling with where to meet quality singles any more!).
We will also help you to take the plunge into Online and Social media dating with all of our strategic secrets to achieving actual success in these overwhelming worlds. You will deep dive and understand the feminine and masculine in dating, giving you the best flirting and communication tactics so you feel equipped to not only secure a date but also show up to a first date with ease and confidence.
You’re going to leave this section of the program having mastered the art of first dates, feeling far less weary about rejection, and WAY more satisfied with how many quality people you are meeting.
Phase 3: Get Real Dating Results
In the final phase, we’re not going to let you walk out of these 8 weeks without getting REAL DATING RESULTS.
What if you could ENJOY dating and actually have SUCCESS while doing it? We’re going to share our insider secrets to our most creative and meaningful date ideas that will make you feel connected and rediscover the FUN in dating.
You’ll also gain clarity on how to communicate and connect with your date throughout the process of dating. We will share our top LDR tips, in-person strategies and our system for managing expectations. Can you resonate with that feeling of liking someone and NOT knowing how to share your feelings without putting mounds of pressure on yourself or the other person? Together, we will solve it!
You will leave yourself equipped and able to discern what dating situations you should stay in and which you should leave, all the while leaving someone better than you found them.
We have DOZENS of healthy couples who have come out of SOD!!
Tyler
Katye
Amie
16, 2 Hour small group teaching and Q&A Zoom Sessions (2 PER WEEK for 8 weeks) (VALUE: $4000).
A Physical Workbook to keep you accountable, stay on track and have afterwards to get the results you’re desiring in dating (VALUE: $500).
WEEKLY Messages from Kait and JJ to keep you motivated on your journey (VALUE: $397).
Accountability & Community Support System (VALUE: $500).
Your own School of Dating COACH for extra SUPPORT and encouragement (VALUE: $1000).
BONUS Thursday Office Hours to make sure you get all your questions answered (VALUE: $500).
Get the best deal by paying in full!
This is our prorated price for 6 payments!
Get everything you would normally get with School of Dating, PLUS private coaching throughout the program and for 9 weeks AFTER the program to ensure success!
The program is INTENSIVE, and oftentimes our students need additional 1:1 support. WIth SOD PRO you will get a 1:1 30 minute coaching CALL each week of the program, plus weekly coaching calls for 9 weeks after the program to solidify your dating life is COMPLETELY transformed.
As SOD is a group program, SOD PRO is the way to go to fully ensure 1:1 support and personal transformation (you literally will have 20 weeks of 1:1 coaching!)!!
Do you get nervous about what to say and ask on a date? Fear no more with this SOS question guide that will help you have real, intentional, connected conversations.
Do you find that your dating prospects fizzle out because of poor conversation? We will give you our tricks to keep the conversation alive and exciting
AMAZING and CREATIVE date ideas that will increase connection and in turn success of your dating journey.
The one and only Karrie Garcia is joining us this class for an exclusive teaching on Healing Story Work.
The clear roadmap on how to meet singles and process all emotions and feelings following a date.
The EXACT photos to post to attract the quality person you are looking for (no more fish photos!)
We get you, friend because just a while ago we were in YOUR shoes! We totally understand that it can feel vulnerable and risky to put your heart on the line in dating.
That’s why the School Of Dating is designed to give you ALL the practical tools your parents, pastor, or best friends haven’t been able to teach you so you can feel confident in approaching your next date with confidence, peace, and ease.
16, 2 Hour small group teaching and Q&A Zoom Sessions (VALUE: $4000).
A Physical Workbook to keep you accountable, stay on track and have afterwards to get the results you’re desiring in dating (VALUE: $500).
Weekly Texts from Kait and JJ to keep you motivated on your journey (VALUE: $397).
Accountability & Community Support System (VALUE: $500).
Your own School of Dating COACH for extra SUPPORT and encouragement (VALUE: $1000).
BONUS Thursday Office Hours to make sure you get all your questions answered (VALUE: $500).
The Ultimate Online Dating Profile Setup Guide. The EXACT photos to post to attract the quality person you are looking for (no more fish photos!).
Your Guide to the Best Questions to Ask on a Date. Fear no more with this SOS question guide that will help you have real, intentional, connected conversations.
Texting Scripts. We will give you our tricks to keep the conversation alive and exciting.
Creative and Connected Date Ideas Manual. AMAZING and CREATIVE date ideas that will increase connection and in turn success of your dating journey.
Training Sessions with Experts and Master Dating Coaches... this round KARRIE GARCIA
Dating Journal. The clear roadmap on how to meet singles and process all emotions and feelings following a date.
SOD PRO is everything in SOD PLUS 1:1 coaching support by phone throughout the program and for 9 weeks AFTER the program. In essence it’s 20 weeks of 1:1 phone coaching support. Since SOD is cohort/ small group based, this is the BEST for someone who wants a more 1:1, personalized experience.
Here is the schedule for our current October class!
WELCOME & ORIENTATION Sunday October 6th 7-8:30PM CST
PHASE 1
SESSION 1:Intro to Core Wound, Inner Child/Teen and Reconnecting with Parts of Self - Tuesday October 8th, 7pm-9pm CST
Q&A - Thursday October 10th, 7pm-8pm CST
SESSION 2: Attachment Styles - Tuesday, October 15th, 7pm-9pm CST
Q&A - Thursday October 17th, 7pm-8pm CST
SESSION 3: Core Wound, Mind Body Connection & Managing Emotions-Tuesday, October 22nd, 7pm-9pm CST
Q&A - Thursday, October 24th, 7pm-8pm CST
SESSION 4: GODFIDENCE & Healthy Anatomy of a Relationship- Tuesday, October 29th, 7pm-9pm CST
Q&A - Thursday, October 31st, 7pm-8pm CST
SESSION 5:Type, Attraction, & Clarity in Your Values-Tuesday, November 5th, 7pm-9pm CST
Q&A - Thursday November 7th, 7pm-8pm CST
SESSION 6: Mindset- Tuesday, November 12th, 7pm-9pm CST
Q&A - Thursday November 14th, 7pm-8pm CST
PHASE 2
SESSION 7: Feminine and Masculine -Tuesday, November 19th, 7pm-9pm CST
Q&A - Thursday November 21st, 7pm-8pm CST
SESSION 8: Flirting 101-Saturday November 23rd, 11am-1pm CST
SESSION 9: Online Dating + Dating Challenge-Tuesday, November 26th, 7pm-9pm CST
Q&A - Thursday, November 28th, 7pm-8pm CST
SESSION 10: Pacing in Relationships-Saturday, November 30th, 11am-1pm CST
SESSION 11: First Dates-Tuesday, December 3rd, 7pm-9pm CST
Q&A - Thursday, December 5th, 7pm-8pm CST
SESSION 12: Facing Rejection-Saturday, December 7th,11am-1pm CST
PHASE 3
SESSION 13: After the First Date, Communication & Managing Expectations-Tuesday, December 10th, 7pm-9pm CST
Q&A - Thursday, December 12th, 7pm-8pm CST
SESSION 14: Long Distance & Dating Hot Seat- Saturday, December 14th, 11am-1pm CST
SESSION 15: DTR, Boundaries, and Hard Conversations- Tuesday, December 17th, 7pm-9pm CST
Q&A - Thursday, December 19th, 7pm-8pm CST
SESSION 16: Graduation-Saturday, December 21st, 11am-1pm CST
We understand the cost of this program won’t be for everyone, and that’s something we are okay with.
We believe that when you take the brave move of investing in yourself, you will reap the rewards through more specific RESULTS. If you got a gym membership for free, the reality is you'd likely go for one week, then give up and never meet your fitness goal. But if you paid for 1 on 1 personal training, there’s NO way you’re missing those sessions. You’re also more likely to get MORE out of the things you invest in financially because they resonate deeper with you and you’re more likely to try even harder.
Lastly, truth be told we have worked really hard to make this program as affordable as possible for you.
These sessions will be recorded and made available to you within 24 hours. Also please check out the LIVE schedule that we share in advance!
This program is a group setting program.
The program size is about 50-60 students.
We cannot offer ANY sort of guarantee, but what we CAN offer you is clarity, confidence, courage, and an entire plan and process that will make dating SUCCESSFUL for you.
What we are teaching is exactly what WE have practiced and learned during our dating life that led us to meet one another. This work will help you through the nitty-gritty to truly become a MASTER in your dating life.
That being said, whether this works for you like you want it to is really in your hands. You will get as many results as you put time and effort into making practicing what we are teaching you and processing through the content. But we are confident that if you have a healthy mindset and are willing to truly commit to the process, your dating life will start to transform.
Due to the nature of the program and the proprietary and exclusive content provided, there are no refunds available. We reserve the right to refuse any refund request.
This is a program for MEN AND WOMEN. Come one come all, we LOVE training and teaching men, and you are in good company (JJ will be glad you’re there to even the ratio!)
It is not! However, we will talk about Jesus and incorporate biblical principles throughout. We will also incorporate healing prayer and prayer in general into some of our sessions. If that’s something you care to be around, make sure you weigh that before joining!
School Of Dating Is Not For You If…
Even numbered (2, 4, 6, 8, 10, 12, 14, 16) sessions are run LIVE by Kait & JJ.
Odd numbered (3, 5, 7, 9, 11, 13, 15) sessions are run LIVE by a SOD coach. In this session there is a pre-recorded video by Kait and JJ, then LIVE activities and questions.
We highly encourage students to attend every session LIVE.
You are MORE than welcome to reach out to our team at info@hodpodcast.com and they would be happy to assist you with any questions you have!
If finding a faith-filled partner is the desire of your heart we’d love to help you fall in love with yourself first, discover wholeness and healing, understand the practical side of dating and relationships, and give you all the TOOLS to get REAL dating results!