Understanding where to meet quality, godly singles can be challenging, but we uncover that the options are broad and diverse. An intriguing shift has occurred over the last century, particularly with the surge of online dating. Apps like Hinge, especially popular among younger generations, have a considerable success rate. It’s noteworthy that activities, hobbies, and events are playing an increasingly significant role, especially for those in their 30s and 40s, as traditional friend-based setups diminish.

Keep in mind, embracing new methods like dating apps may feel daunting, but it’s worth exploring. Don't overlook mutual connections setting you up; while it may seem awkward to ask, being proactive can lead to fruitful introductions. We discuss the power of setups using Kait's own experience as an example – persistence in following up is key!

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A large part of meeting the right person is a mental game. The notion of waiting can be misleading if interpreted as being passive. Instead, embrace waiting as a time for active searching paired with discernment. We stress the importance of changing the narrative from scarcity to abundance, recognizing that feeling stuck is often self-imposed.

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Your church community, workplace, or circle of friends might seem limited, but expanding beyond these avenues can make all the difference. Get involved in hobbies, serve in ministries, and participate in new events to develop diverse social connections. Consider visiting other church activities or broader Christian events where new faces await. Remember, innovation starts when you step outside familiar places!

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We tackle the romanticized expectations placed upon meeting someone. Obsessed over that “Disney-perfect” story? Time to let it go. Real love stories are organic and often unexpected. Embrace the reality that your perfect match might come from unexpected places, like Kait meeting JJ virtually during the pandemic – a love story she never foresaw.

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Lastly, we introduce a new venture called "Qualified Date," an affordable matchmaking service offering an innovative solution for those serious about finding a godly partner. Unlike traditional matchmaking where prices can soar, this method provides a streamlined, budget-friendly option.

So, Heart of Dating fam, it's time to step into this season of active searching with confidence. We challenge you to abandon the excuses, romanticize less about the "perfect" love story, and embrace proactive, purposeful steps towards finding lasting love. Choose one new method to try this week. Shake off the couches, dive into new experiences, and most importantly, trust the journey God has set before you. We believe in you!

Until next episode, blessings to you all! Kait & JJ

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