What if I Don't Feel a Spark?

Kait Warman is continuing to answer YOUR questions on the podcast. Today, she receives a question from Brooke. She asks, “Should I go out on a second date, even if I didn’t have “a spark”?'. Well Brookw, you’re not alone!The question of chemistry being important is one of the most popular questions we receive… So let’s listen in as Kait answers this hot topic with a little help from her good friend Jonathan Pokluda as we take a trip down memory lane to one of our most popular episodes!

Skip Ahead

In This Episode

A Quick Recap of the Advice Kait Gives on this Episode:

Instant chemistry can be awesome but oftentimes it's really not an indicator of a long time relationship.
Remember that Chemistry can and will die fast if there aren’t other attributes to back up those feelings.
Chemistry can sometimes hinder you from seeing warning signs. Unfortunately, it can easily distract you and have you overlook red flags.
Chemistry is important, but falls somewhere after 4th place in terms of priorities when dating.
Kait recommends that If you are going out with somebody that you don’t have that instant “spark” with.. Then give it a second go! You may never know what will happen!

Kait Warman

Kait Warman is a best-selling author, speaker, popular relationship coach, and the founder of Heart of Dating. She helps thousands of men and women on their journeys through the conversations on the Heart of Dating Podcast, which launched in 2018.

Through her ministry, Kait’s mission is to empower both men and women to have the courage to own their story, walk in victory, thrive with purpose, and discover clarity and vision in their life and relationships. In her new book, Thank You for Rejecting Me: Transform Pain into Purpose and Learn to Fight for Yourself, Kait vulnerably shares how she grew through her deepest, darkest rejections and offers readers the tools to heal from the past, take back their power, and walk in strength, victory, and love into their future. Kait currently lives in the Los Angeles area and loves sunshine, walks, Jesus, and lip syncing to Celine Dion.

Never Miss an Episode

Let’s clear through the dating fog together.

Stay up to date with all our latest episodes featuring fresh, compelling topics and guests weekly!

The School of Dating

join our email list

next episode

Never miss an episode

Your Cart