For many of us, creating a list of qualities we desire in a partner can be a crucial step in understanding what truly matters. Christian and Arden emphasize creating this list based on the vision God has for your life. Instead of superficial characteristics, the Bevere's focused on the values and qualities that would support the vision each had for their lives. Incorporating spiritual maturity, aligned passions, and mutual respect were more pivotal than mere physical attributes.

However, JJ and Kait acknowledge the potential pitfalls of an overly rigid list, and encourage listeners to invite wise counsel to provide perspective. A healthy list should serve as a guide rather than a restriction, ensuring that it doesn't dismiss someone God might have placed in your life for a reason beyond your immediate comprehension.

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Whether your dating journey is marked by a fast-paced timeline or a slow, intentional courtship, having wise counsel is essential. Both Arden and Christian, and JJ and Kait stress the importance of friends and mentors who can offer honest feedback and guidance. Wise counsel can provide clarity, especially when personal biases or fears might cloud judgment. This doesn’t mean sharing all the detailed intricacies of a relationship, but rather seeking valuable input when important decisions arise.

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In a culture that often sets strict timelines for achieving life milestones, trusting in God’s perfect timing can be revolutionary. For Arden and Christian, actively engaging in their faith and trusting God was pivotal in recognizing each other as the right partners. JJ aptly reminds us that God is intricately involved in the details of our lives, including our relationships. By leaning into faith and prayer, we can discern His will and timing for our partnerships.

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Whether your journey is anything like Arden and Christian’s whirlwind romance or involves a more extended timeline, remember that there is no one-size-fits-all approach to relationships. Your path may not mirror anyone else's, but it’s uniquely designed for you. Trust the process, embrace the lessons, and above all, seek to glorify the Lord in your relationships.

Thanks for tuning in, HOD family! Stay blessed, keep faith at the center of your dating journey, and let’s continue to grow together. See you next week!

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