• JJ was not too worried about Kait’s sexual past as he saw her as 
• You need to work out the possibility early on that your partner may have a more extensive sexual experience than your experience.
• The most important thing to keep in mind is who we are in Christ.

Your sexual past is not the most important thing about you nor it is the most important thing about someone else.” - Kait Warman

• Respond peacefully and without any judgment.
• When somebody is willing to be that vulnerable with you, it’s an opportunity to extend grace, Christ's love, and forgiveness to them..
• You should always ask yourself and consider if you are actually responding or just reacting out of emotions.

“I don’t see Kait for her sexual background or any background of sin, I see her for who she is today and who she is in Christ, And I love her for that.” -JJ Tomlin

• Do not share it upfront. Sharing something this vulnerable too quickly can create a sense of false intimacy and connection.
• The story of your sexual past should be shared in layers.
• You can share it as a reference point but it is not necessary to dive into details.