JJ opens up about his struggles with being overly critical in dating, reminding us to see the beauty in people rather than focusing on tiny flaws.

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JJ addresses how society's unrealistic expectations set us up for disappointment. He's here to say that love and marriage require effort, transformation, and sacrifice—much like the gospel.

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JJ shares his plan to apologize to his wife for his selfishness, highlighting the importance of owning our flaws and committing to growth.

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JJ evaluates the idea that "you always marry the wrong one." Instead of constantly reevaluating your partner, focus on building love and becoming the right kind of person.

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Marriage is about choosing to love and forgive repeatedly, even when it’s hard. JJ ties this to absorbing debts and bringing pain to Jesus for healing.

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JJ compares arranged marriages (low divorce rate) to those based on free choice, questioning modern pickiness in relationships.

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