One of the key points discussed is the value of giving people the time and opportunity to grow and rise to challenges. Instead of immediately judging someone based on stringent criteria, Kait advises allowing room for growth. Relationships are all about evolving together, not finding someone who is already perfect.

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JJ shares wisdom on the risks of excessively high standards. Quick judgments based on unrealistic expectations can close doors to potential growth and deeper connections. By maintaining a sense of curiosity about a person’s potential, we can avoid these pitfalls and foster more meaningful relationships.

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Kait and JJ talk about the importance of shared interests and lifestyle compatibility. While having different hobbies can be enriching, finding common activities fosters deeper connections. It's about maintaining a balance where both partners enjoy each other’s interests while cultivating new activities together.

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JJ reflects on societal pressures where both men and women often seek ‘unicorns’—perfect partners without flaws. The hosts stress that real, healthy relationships involve accepting imperfections and embracing growth together.

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Kait delves into how mentorship has been key in understanding and supporting a partner emotionally. Mentors provide perspectives and guidance that peers often cannot, playing a crucial role in shaping realistic expectations in relationships.

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Kait and JJ conclude that high standards should be rooted in curiosity and openness, rather than rigid benchmarks. By understanding our own journey, seeking wisdom from mentors, and embracing mutual growth, we can navigate dating with grace and wisdom.

HOD fam, we hope this episode helps you balance your dating standards for healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Remember, it’s about the journey and the growth you and your partner experience together. Till next time, happy dating!

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