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Masculine Energy in Dating

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Rachel Sherrill

Rachel Sherrill returns for another episode deep diving into masculine energy, polarization, and how to create a safe space.

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Recap of Masculine Energy

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Polarization

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How are men going to know you’re a safe space ladies?

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Are you a wounded masculine?

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Recap of Masculine Energy

  • Action oriented with a make something happen attitude. 
  • Giving, forward leaning, problem solving energy. 
  • Masculine energy takes initiative. 

Polarization

  • “You have to have polarization to have sexual tension.” - Rachel 
  • Opposites attract. 
  • When women show up with masculine energy and meet the man's masculine energy there is no connection and they repel.  
  • The key to a man's heart is your ability as a woman to unlock your heart first. 

How are men going to know you’re a safe space ladies?

  • By your openness. Is there an open space and are you able to receive? 
  • The most attractive thing you can do for a man is to demonstrate your ability to receive from him. 
  • Your ability to attract good men into your life has less to do with your outward appearance and a WHOLE lot more to do with your energetic state of being and how you show up and present your whole entire being to the world around you and to men. 
  • Men have the ability to rise, it’s in their nature. 
  • Telling a man you trust in his ability to complete things/figure something out, takes the chokehold off of him. 

Are you a wounded masculine?

  • The wounded masuline man shows up as feminine, narcissism, and ego. 
  • Men want to be affirmed and they want to have a win with you. 
  • This isn’t about being manipulative, this is about being genuine. 

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Rachel Sherrill

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Rachel Sherrill is a Certified Dating and Relationship Coach and The host  of The True Feminine Podcast. She Coaches thousands of women and specializes in The Concept of Masculine vs Feminine Energy. Rachel primarily Teaches women how to speak to men in a way that draws them in and inspires commitment. She believes there is an art to speaking to men that can be magical and magnetic and she LOVES teaching it! 

Interested in enrolling in The True Feminine Academy?

https://www.thetruefeminine.com/a/2147514787/R8qx2kLb

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