Today, we're jumping into where JJ Tomlin talks about the perks of dating friends and shares tips on transitioning smoothly from friends to romantic partners!
Introduction
Rejection Happens, Keep Moving
Love Can Grow from Friendship
Healthy Friend Groups = Dating Goldmine
Perks of Dating a Friend
How to Ask a Friend Out
Wrap Up
Heyyy HOD fam! We’re back with another awesome episode in our series on christian dating hot topics. This time, we’re diving into a topic that’s super relatable but sometimes tricky: dating a friend. Haven't we all thought about it at some point? Well, today we’re spilling the tea on everything you need to know about taking that leap. Let's dive in!!!
First up, JJ reminds us that rejection is just part of the dating game. If a friend says no to a date, don’t sweat it—just move on. Sometimes, taking that leap can lead to a beautiful, unexpected romantic journey, and if not, it's all good!
JJ is all about the idea that romantic feelings can develop over time within the safety and fun of a friendship. He shares super inspiring success stories of couples who found love within their friend groups. The key takeaway? A foundation of friendship is crucial for a lasting relationship.
Surrounding yourself with a healthy group of Christian singles can naturally spark romantic feelings. Hanging out together in groups or one-on-one—without even labeling it as a date—sets the stage for love to blossom. Proximity and repeated interactions, even virtually, often lead to those romantic sparks.
Dating a friend comes with awesome benefits:
1. Solid Foundation: A strong friendship is the backbone of any lasting relationship.
2. Genuine Care: Friends already care for each other, which makes for a more meaningful dating experience.
3. Low Pressure: You’re already used to spending time together; now it's just with a romantic twist.
4. Authenticity: You know each other’s quirks and can be totally yourself.
Thinking about popping the question to a friend? JJ’s got you covered. He shares tips on keeping it low-pressure and even how to give them an easy out to avoid awkwardness if they’re not feeling it. Clear communication is also key to managing those “I’m interested but not ready” situations.
So, HOD fam, if you’re thinking about exploring the world of dating a friend, this episode’s got all the wisdom and practical advice you need. Approach it with care and intention, because dating a friend could be your ticket to a love that lasts.
JJ Tomlin is a missionary kid born in Belgium, originally from Tennessee, and currently residing in the OC. He currently works in Gaming/E-Commerce, enjoys watching his Tennessee Titans on Sundays with his Goldendoodle Teddy and loves working with Christian men to raise the bar in singleness and dating.
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