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MM: Date Your Friend

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JJ Tomlin

Today, we're jumping into where JJ Tomlin talks about the perks of dating friends and shares tips on transitioning smoothly from friends to romantic partners!

Introduction

Heyyy HOD fam! We’re back with another awesome episode in our series on christian dating hot topics. This time, we’re diving into a topic that’s super relatable but sometimes tricky: dating a friend. Haven't we all thought about it at some point? Well, today we’re spilling the tea on everything you need to know about taking that leap. Let's dive in!!!

Rejection Happens, Keep Moving

First up, JJ reminds us that rejection is just part of the dating game. If a friend says no to a date, don’t sweat it—just move on. Sometimes, taking that leap can lead to a beautiful, unexpected romantic journey, and if not, it's all good!

Love Can Grow from Friendship

JJ is all about the idea that romantic feelings can develop over time within the safety and fun of a friendship. He shares super inspiring success stories of couples who found love within their friend groups. The key takeaway? A foundation of friendship is crucial for a lasting relationship.

Healthy Friend Groups = Dating Goldmine

Surrounding yourself with a healthy group of Christian singles can naturally spark romantic feelings. Hanging out together in groups or one-on-one—without even labeling it as a date—sets the stage for love to blossom. Proximity and repeated interactions, even virtually, often lead to those romantic sparks.

Perks of Dating a Friend

Dating a friend comes with awesome benefits:

1. Solid Foundation: A strong friendship is the backbone of any lasting relationship.

2. Genuine Care: Friends already care for each other, which makes for a more meaningful dating experience.

3. Low Pressure: You’re already used to spending time together; now it's just with a romantic twist.

4. Authenticity: You know each other’s quirks and can be totally yourself.

How to Ask a Friend Out

Thinking about popping the question to a friend? JJ’s got you covered. He shares tips on keeping it low-pressure and even how to give them an easy out to avoid awkwardness if they’re not feeling it. Clear communication is also key to managing those “I’m interested but not ready” situations.

Wrap Up

So, HOD fam, if you’re thinking about exploring the world of dating a friend, this episode’s got all the wisdom and practical advice you need. Approach it with care and intention, because dating a friend could be your ticket to a love that lasts.

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JJ Tomlin

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JJ Tomlin is a missionary kid born in Belgium, originally from Tennessee, and currently residing in the OC. He currently works in Gaming/E-Commerce, enjoys watching his Tennessee Titans on Sundays with his Goldendoodle Teddy and loves working with Christian men to raise the bar in singleness and dating.


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