Keep It Real: Alec opens up about not being upfront with his dating life and how it led to some messy situations. Definitely a must-listen if honesty in relationships is something you’re working on.

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Communication is Everything: Both Alec and JJ Tomlin share their own experiences with dating mishaps and stress the need to talk openly about dating multiple people to avoid any drama.

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Alec breaks down the five stages of dating: single, dating, relationship, engaged, and married. It really helps clear up when you’re “dating” vs. actually being in a relationship.

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Accidental “Player” Vibes: Alec talks about how easy it is to unintentionally come off as a player and the importance of having discipline and integrity in dating.

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Fear of Commitment: He opens up about his own fear of commitment and how reading Dr. Henry Cloud’s book changed his approach to getting to know people rather than hunting for the “perfect” person.

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Alec shares a story about a guy who sold his farm to search for diamonds, only to find a diamond field right on his own property. This made Alec rethink his dating life, encouraging us to invest time in those right around us instead of always searching for the next best thing.

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This episode is packed with heartfelt moments, funny anecdotes, and loads of practical advice for anyone navigating the dating world. Whether you’re looking for some serious dating insights or just want a good laugh, JJ and Alec have got you covered. Tune in and get ready to learn—and laugh—a ton. 

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Catch you in the next episode, HOD fam! Let’s keep it real in our dating journeys and always remember to have a little fun along the way.

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