• What is worth more??? 
• The trust between me and my partner? Or having this friendship with this female??? Which is worth more to me??? ESPECIALLY if there is trauma and hurt and pain that they have even began or are healing from… Which is more important??? 
• When it comes to her story of HEALING…. What’s more important?? Your pride and desire to have that relationship or her healing and growing???
• When she looks backward at her healing journey, whether you got married or not…Do you want to be a man who contributed that healing process for her?? Do you want to be able to say because I found a truely loyal man, who cared about my pain and my emotions, I was more healed after knowing this dude. Or are you just going to be another defensive dude.. Who couldn’t get over his pride.. And unfollow or mute a few girls on Instagram… or settle for a handshake or a nod to greet the other girl at church.

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• I think I look back on my friendships with women and really there a lot of special, Godly women I admire, trust, respect and love and the ones I really cherished the most really shared that common thread of Christ..and simultaneously those were the ones where it was most clear that we were friends, only friends, and family in Christ. We looked after one another, could be honest and really sought the best for one another, served one another.
• Anything other than that is just more an acquaintance / friendship that I value but it is not worth fighting for with a partner, doesn’t hold a candle to my partner. 

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