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Managing Expectations

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Anthony O'Neal

We’re finishing up our epic series with Anthony O’Neal on the podcast today… and we’re getting real about expectations. We’ve talked about this A LOT here at Heart of Dating and that’s because it’s such a needed conversation! This is why we’re so excited to have a man’s perspective and how we can be cautious to manage the kind of expectations we have when it comes to dating in the church! So tune in as Kait and Anthony talk about this on today’s show!

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In This Episode

What is your advice about having high expectations?

What is your advice about having high expectations?

Kait and Anthony talk about first dates and what to look for!
Instead of worrying about WHERE they may take you out on the first date, pay attention to more important aspects of it, such as if they are intentionally listening to you.
Anthony talks about being kind and appreciating efforts! He talks about how it is one of the most unattractive things for a man when he feels like a constant failure.
“Take your time and get to know us for who we really are.”- Michael
Don’t allow someone to change who you really are… be authentic in who you are when it comes to dating.
You are only in control of yourself.

Anthony O'Neal

Anthony O’Neal is a #1 national bestselling author, speaker, financial expert, and host of the popular YouTube series and The Table podcast with Anthony O’Neal. He’s passionate about reaching people in a real, relatable, and relevant way and helping them get a clear vision for their future so they can win with their life and money.

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