What does it mean to be in pursuit of a woman?

Let me start by getting this out of the way… men, I want this to be encouraging to you. So first things first, the number one MOST important ingredient about successfully pursuing a woman is this…It is NOT about YOU. If you step out into the dating world and you want to truly pursue your female counterpart properly,  you have to surrender this idea of “what about me…” This is HUGE when you’re trying to make your way from the dating stage into a more serious relationship. But I’m not going to lie… it takes a lot of work. 

What does it look like to be in pursuit of a woman?‍

Men, here is some of our biggest advice on how to level up your dating game:

Step #1: Call it a DATE and not HANG OUT! You may not think this is important but it is. Be clear about what you want so she’s not left to question or be confused about your intentions.

Step #2 - The date should be communicated at least 24 hours in advance, NOT the morning of! One word. Communication. Fellas, remember that ladies take a little longer to prepare for a date than you do… they need their time! Don’t come off like this is a last-minute option just because you don’t have anything else to do.

Step #3 - Deliver - be thoughtful and focused on her! This date is about HER. You asked for her time, she’s graciously giving it to you… make sure it COUNTS!

‍Step #4 - Own the follow-up and direction!! Follow up in a timely manner, don’t leave her guessing how the date went. Whether you enjoyed the date or not, don’t leave her in the dark and communicate your feelings.