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The Find Your Person
Challenge 2025

A 4-Night Conference Experience for Christian Singles to break old dating patterns and prepare for the marriage you’ve been praying for.

Join us May 11-14th, 7:00-8:30 PM CST

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Why This Challenge Will CHANGE YOU!

Still single—and lowkey wondering what’s wrong with you?

You’re not alone. Dating today feels like a minefield of:

Talking stages that go nowhere

Unclear intentions, mixed signals, and spiritual confusion

Overthinking, over-functioning, and wondering if you’re “too much”

Feeling like there’s no one left who actually wants a godly marriage

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Fun Facts

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60% of student

are 30+

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~50 students

per class

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4-6 Sessions

most students tend to miss.

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lifetime access

You have lifetime access / all replays will be available

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payment plan options

We DO have payment plan options- see below.

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FIRSTDIBS gets the best price

so text FIRSTDIBS to +1 (214) 225-7772

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We meet

Tuesday nights and Saturday morning with BONUS Thursday night Office Hours

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You CAN take SOD

while dating/ in a relationship or while in closed singeleness

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If you are Single as a Pringle

this is PERFECT for you

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75% of students who take SOD...

have never taken an intensive program before

But here’s the truth:

You don’t need to date harder. You need to date differently.

That’s why we created this challenge.

Over 4 powerful nights, we’ll help you:

Break free from patterns that keep you stuck

Heal from past dating wounds

Step into clarity, confidence, and spiritual discernment

Actually position yourself to meet the right kind of person

You’ve prayed. You’ve tried.
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Now it’s time to experience a breakthrough.

JOIN FOR FREE!

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"The conference impacted me by giving me more confidence, courage to be more open with my feelings without fear of rejection & hopefulness in dating in general. I also was able to “let go” of a couple things that were keeping me “stuck” in a season of closed singleness instead of an abundant one in Christ. God honors dating for the purpose of marriage and the conference helped me to remember that."

Kay

"I found more confidence in myself. I also learned that I don’t have to walk through my struggles alone or be embarrassed about the things I deal with. Finally, I also learned that God gave me a voice to use, and I can use it to impact others and help them too."

Michelle

"The entire event helped encourage me more than I can really put in to words. I feel like I was getting tired on the journey, and tired is a bad place to be because silly decisions are made in a tired state…the event helped revive me for the next part of the journey, restored some hope and just really was great timing!"

Joyce

"THANK YOU!!! I am so happy to be part of Heart of Dating! I have grown so much from your resources! Kait does a great job of helping singles to pursue both contentment and desire. That is a unique and challenging thing to do, and HOD does it so well!"

Corrie

"I honestly believed that God was punishing me prior to HODC of last year. I was just unhappy, and felt like nobody understood my burden. I have found a community like no other through HOD. This year was no exception. Being there with people who I can relate to, just felt God was breathing new life into me."

Betsy

What You’ll Learn Each Night

Night 01:

What’s Actually Blocking You From Love

Led by Dating Coaches Kait and JJ Tomlin! Uncover & break the root patterns keeping you stuck

Night 02:

Heal the Part of You That Keeps Choosing the Wrong People

Led by Licensed Therapist, Jason VanRuler! Get emotionally free so you stop attracting what you don’t want

Night 03:

Step Into Confidence & Raise Your Standards

Led by Jamal Miller. Step out of fear & insecurity. Start dating from your worth.

Night 04:

How to show interest

Led by Kait and JJ Tomlin. Get strategic—where to meet godly people & how to attract them

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Meet the Speakers

Kait & JJ Tomlin

Kait Tomlin is a national best-selling author, speaker, popular relationship coach, and the founder of Heart of Dating. She, along with her husband, JJ, helps thousands of men and women on their journeys through the conversations on the Heart of Dating Podcast, which launched in 2018. Through their ministry, the Tomlin's mission is to empower both men and women to have the courage to own their story, walk in victory, thrive with purpose, and discover clarity and vision in their life and relationships. In Kait's most recent book, Thank You for Rejecting Me: Transform Pain into Purpose and Learn to Fight for Yourself, Kait vulnerably shares how she grew through her deepest, darkest rejections and offers readers the tools to heal from the past, take back their power, and walk in strength, victory, and love into their future. They currently live in Franklin, TN with their daughter Eleanor, and bernedoodle Lovey.

DR. JASON VanRULER

Jason VanRuler, MA is one of the most sought-after therapists on relationships, attachment, and
dating. In addition to his social media following, he has been featured on top national news outlets, spoken on stage to thousands,
and is the author of Get Past Your Past (Zondervan, 2023). Jason resides in South Dakota with his wife and three amazing kids.

JAMAL MILLER

Jamal Miller is the co-founder of Miller Global Enterprises, now the parent company to widely known brands Married & Young and online programs The One University and Profit in Purpose Academy.
He has been featured in Forbes, BET, JET magazine, and have been guests on a CBN segment — all in the grand effort to reduce the divorce rate in America. With a team of writers, Married & Young reaches an online audience in the hundreds of thousands, and The One University has graduated over 7,000 students.
Jamal is an Amazon best-selling author of “25 Ways to Prepare for Marriage Other Than Dating,” the CEO of Miller Global Enterprises, and founder of Profit in Purpose.

Come early for the
‍PRE-SHOW party!

Every night at 6:30 PM CST, join Kait & JJ (and your favorite SOD coaches) for a fun, laid-back hangout before the main event!

We’ll have:

Icebreakers + fun questions

Nightly giveaways

Live chat with other singles

Dating games that’ll make you laugh (and maybe blush)

The best part?

‍You get early access to the community and a chance to win prizes just for showing up!

This challenge is for you if:

You’re serious about godly marriage—but frustrated with modern dating

You’ve been ghosted, confused, or disillusioned

You want to attract better (but don’t want to fake it to find it)

You know God has more for your love life—and you’re ready for it

This challenge is NOT for you if:

You want to keep blaming everyone else without looking inward

You’re content settling or playing it safe

You’re not ready to grow, heal, and prepare for marriage

Are you ready?

This 4 Night Event is TOTALLY FREE!

Spots are free, but space is limited on Zoom!

🔥 Over 2,000 Single Christians expected!

🎉 Nightly giveaways + live-only surprises!

💌 Replays available to those who sign up